| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 37 years |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1970 |
| Date of Death | 07/06/2008 |
| Visitors | 5,113 since 16/06/2008 |
| Creator |
Gary Dempster 23/06/70- 07/06/08
age 37
Died peacefully at home (07/06/08)
Loving Son of Sheelagh, Stepson of Dave
Brother to Nichola, Lindsay and Kelly.
Uncle to J.J, Danny, Jodileigh, Jake, Shae and Tauni
Loving Nephew to John and Julie, Sue and Billy, Trish, Dave, George and Annette, Deb and Kevin,Terry
and Julie,Maurice,Margaret and last but not least Francis, Norman, Margaret, Dougie and Brenda.
Cousin to;
Carley and Kim
Paul, Terry, Stuart, David and Beckie
Tiffany
Walter, Scott, John, Laura, Alison and Terry
Claire and Andrew
Daniel
Kevin and Vicky
Terry Shaun and Micheal
Janet, Jane and Robert
Elaine
Joanne
and his very close Special Friends;
Jason, Steve, Taja, Gibbo, Joe, Bobby, Carl,
Kayley and sharon
Doreen, Carol, Cheryl, Hayley, Sam, Vicky, Carl and Paul
If I have left anyone out I sincerely apologise!
Although he had lots of friends they all looked out for Gary and grew up with him, and I thank them
for their kindness and devotion to him.
Gary died suddenly and peacefully at home on Saturday 7th June 2008, at this moment, the cause of is
death is unknown. Although Gary had a lot of problems since contacting meningitis when he was 10
months old, co-ordination problems, epilepsy and severe diabetes. He never allowed this to get him
down and lived his life his way and his way only.
He was forever in and out of hospital, while in there he contracted MRSA 3 times, but they only
admit to twice. I don't blame the hospital staff for this but the goverment have a lot to answer
for.
To the staff on B20 for the card and the flowers and all the care they gave Gary through the years,
thank you and I apologise for all the pranks he played on you, especially the nurse that he locked
in the linen cupboard.
He was a special person and made a lot of friends in the hospital and loved to help anyone worse off
than himself.
I can't thank my brother Dave enough for is love, help and support over the past week, he has been
my rock. To have to do this again so soon after doing everything for my brother Terry who died young
and suddenly 8 months ago speaks volumes.
I thank my daughter Nichola for her love and support.
I thank my daughter Lindsay who made me so proud. She carried her brother's coffin and conducted
church and burial readings. Lindsay also released one of the white birds at the graveside, she is so
strong.
I thank my daughter Kelly who has never left my side. Kelly has ran the household whilst I've been
unable to function properly.
I thank all my brothers and sisters including my late brother Terry's Wife Julie who is as close to
me as a sister, I love You all.
To Colin English, June Barker, Claire Sheriff and all work colleages and friends, your support
means a lot to me, not just for Gary but you were there for me for brother Terry as well. Colin,
you should take up counceling you are so good at it, love you all x
To Carl Greenhow and Davey for there tribute to Gary at his funeral
Releasing the white birds at Gary's graveside, it was spectacular
Hope you noticed the sun shone as soon as they were released
Thank you Carl and Davey xx
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MY SON
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I hold you within my heart each and every day
I am so proud of you
and so thankful for the years I had with you
they've given me so much to be thankful for
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If i'd been given the chance to be anything I wanted
There's nothing I'd rather be than your mother
And there's no-one I would rather have than you
as ♥.·° MY SON ♥.·°
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♥ `*• SWEET DREAMS PRECIOUS ANGEL ♥ `*•
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♥TIME♥
I thought that time was healing
All the hurt you left behind
That empty spaces could be filled
My arms, my heart, my mind.
And though my body looks the same
As it did when you were here
The emptiness is growing
Even bigger with each tear.
I thought that time was healing
All the agonizing pain
That as the tears were fading
Soon I wouldn't feel the same.
And though I can be smiling
And you think that I'll survive
The pain is in my blood now
I have nowhere else to hide.
I thought that time was healing
All the loss a mother feels
That now you live within my heart
I had you near me still.
But I need so much to touch you
To see you smile again
And those memories I'm told are mine
Can never feel the same.
I thought that time was healing
All the while the mask was worn
That underneath a new me
Was waiting to be born.
But now I find I am the mask
It helps to keep me safe
And though my heart is breaking
You won't see it in my face.
I thought that time was healing
All those tears my eyes have seen
That aching arms that miss you
Could be satisfied with dreams.
But here I am, in pain again
And healing stands alone
And mother weeps the world can see
For a son who can't come home♥
miss you son xx
ROSES GROW IN HEAVEN
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved ones arms
And tell them they're from me
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turn to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved ones arms
And tell them they're from me
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turn to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...
hugs to my one and only brother
love you and miss you loads like you will ever know every time i listen to my wedding song and your song glad we shared it brings tears to my eyes but remember all the good things we used to do like the star fish down my top no wonder i have a phobier of fish ha ha love and will never ever forget hugs and kisses xxxxxxxx
The pain still hurts,
the memories still clear,
we wish in our hearts
that you were still here.
You're not just a memory
or part of the past,
you'll be loved and missed
for as long as life lasts
Love you son x
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*****SENDING ALL MY LOVE TO YOU IN HEAVEN*****
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Time will bring its healing touch
and slowly make a start
to show that tears are an angels
way to mend a broken heart
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Love and miss you Son xxxx mam
Hugs Just For You .........
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As I look at the moon
I wish you goodnight
The dearest angel
So special and loved.
You are the one God chose to take
You are the one we could not wake
I know in heaven is now where you sleep.
So please God in heaven
God up above
Please protect this angel
That we love.
I must say good night
I blow to you a kiss
I wish you goodnight
The angel that we miss.
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