| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 37 years |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1970 |
| Date of Death | 07/06/2008 |
| Visitors | 6,780 since 16/06/2008 |
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Gary Dempster 23/06/70- 07/06/08
age 37
Died peacefully at home (07/06/08)
Loving Son of Sheelagh, Stepson of Dave
Brother to Nichola, Lindsay and Kelly.
Uncle to J.J, Danny, Jodileigh, Jake, Shae and Tauni
Loving Nephew to John and Julie, Sue and Billy, Trish, Dave, George and Annette, Deb and Kevin,Terry and Julie,Maurice,Margaret and last but not least Francis, Norman, Margaret, Dougie and Brenda.
Cousin to;
Carley and Kim
Paul, Terry, Stuart, David and Beckie
Tiffany
Walter, Scott, John, Laura, Alison and Terry
Claire and Andrew
Daniel
Kevin and Vicky
Terry Shaun and Micheal
Janet, Jane and Robert
Elaine
Joanne
and his very close Special Friends;
Jason, Steve, Taja, Gibbo, Joe, Bobby, Carl,
Kayley and sharon
Doreen, Carol, Cheryl, Hayley, Sam, Vicky, Carl and Paul
If I have left anyone out I sincerely apologise!
Although he had lots of friends they all looked out for Gary and grew up with him, and I thank them for their kindness and devotion to him.
Gary died suddenly and peacefully at home on Saturday 7th June 2008, at this moment, the cause of is death is unknown. Although Gary had a lot of problems since contacting meningitis when he was 10 months old, co-ordination problems, epilepsy and severe diabetes. He never allowed this to get him down and lived his life his way and his way only.
He was forever in and out of hospital, while in there he contracted MRSA 3 times, but they only admit to twice. I don't blame the hospital staff for this but the goverment have a lot to answer for.
To the staff on B20 for the card and the flowers and all the care they gave Gary through the years, thank you and I apologise for all the pranks he played on you, especially the nurse that he locked in the linen cupboard.
He was a special person and made a lot of friends in the hospital and loved to help anyone worse off than himself.
I can't thank my brother Dave enough for is love, help and support over the past week, he has been my rock. To have to do this again so soon after doing everything for my brother Terry who died young and suddenly 8 months ago speaks volumes.
I thank my daughter Nichola for her love and support.
I thank my daughter Lindsay who made me so proud. She carried her brother's coffin and conducted church and burial readings. Lindsay also released one of the white birds at the graveside, she is so strong.
I thank my daughter Kelly who has never left my side. Kelly has ran the household whilst I've been unable to function properly.
I thank all my brothers and sisters including my late brother Terry's Wife Julie who is as close to me as a sister, I love You all.
To Colin English, June Barker, Claire Sheriff and all work colleages and friends, your support means a lot to me, not just for Gary but you were there for me for brother Terry as well. Colin, you should take up counceling you are so good at it, love you all x
To Carl Greenhow and Davey for there tribute to Gary at his funeral
Releasing the white birds at Gary's graveside, it was spectacular
Hope you noticed the sun shone as soon as they were released
Thank you Carl and Davey xx
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MY SON
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I hold you within my heart each and every day
I am so proud of you
and so thankful for the years I had with you
they've given me so much to be thankful for
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If i'd been given the chance to be anything I wanted
There's nothing I'd rather be than your mother
And there's no-one I would rather have than you
as ♥.·° MY SON ♥.·°
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Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett
"Happy Birthday Gary"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?
Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.
Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.
The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.
No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.
Copyright of Winnie Lovett
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White feathers fall from Heaven
Theyre from the ones we love
All the beauty that they hold
Just like the Heavenly Dove
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Theyre left so we can find them
Angels send them from above
They know we're sad and lonely
And still they send their love
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Save your pure White Feather
It helps you with your fear
Sent from your precious Angel
To let you know theyre always near
copyright� Vicky Deaville 25/4/2010
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♥ღ♥ TODAY ღ
ღ Lyndie Sorenson ♥ღ♥
Today it hurt like yesterday...
tomorrow will be the same
Only the day and date will change...
the rest will all remain.
♥ღ♥
When someone asks me how I am...
or what it is I do?
The answer to those questions are...
I wish I were with you.
♥ღ♥
There is no way to explain this pain...
or how it is I feel
I try to get up every day...
and somehow try to deal.
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Although it seems as if I'm fine ...
I've learned how to just hide
I place a mask upon my face...
and keep it deep inside.
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I cry when no one is around...
can't face what they might say
I have heard so many hurtful words...
I have felt so very betrayed.
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They think time heals everything...
but that just is not true
I know I will not heal...
being left here without you.
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Each morning when I wake up...
the sorrow is still here
I wish this was some big mistake...
that I have lived for years.
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All I have are pictures ...
and my many memories
That often are so painful...
that never will be eased.
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I long to have you back with me...
but know it won't come true
I will never have that life again...
that life with me and you. ♥ღ♥
PLEASE dont ask me if Im over it yet,
I'll never be over it
PLEASE dont tell me he is in a better place,
He isn't here with me
PLEASE dont say ,at least he isn't suffering,
I dont understand why he had to suffer at all
PLEASE dont tell me you know how I feel,
Unless you have lost a Son
PLEASE dont ask me if I feel better,
Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up
PLEASE dont tell me, at least you had him for a little while, When would you choose for your child to die
PLEASE dont tell me that god never gives us more than we can bear
PLEASE just say that you are sorry
PLEASE just say you remember my Son if you do
PLEASE just let me talk about my Son
PLEASE mention my Sons name
PLEASE just let me cry
xx missing you so much Gary xx love mamxxxxxx
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~.You Will See Them Someday.~
When you lose someone it can be hard to take
The pain that you feel when your heart has to break
The memories you keep are all in your mind
As you search your soul for more to find
The way their skin felt the smell of their hair
As you keep thinking over and shedding a tear
The years may pass, memories fade to grey
But your getting no younger you'll see them someday
Unconditional love is never forgotten
look deep in your heart it is there at the bottom
Alone in the dark sometimes in fear
voices from loved ones your hoping to hear
More years pass, they soon fly by
but your always looked upon from those in the sky
Surrounded by clouds and pure white doves
They listen and watch sending you love
just remember one thing as you sit and you pray
They will be there to greet you, you will see them someday.
Christmas Without You
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Christmas without you here with me,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
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An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
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There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
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No, Christmas time without you here,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
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Love as
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Mam
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Although the World keeps turning
And the sun comes up each day,
Life has never been the same
Since you were called away.
You were such a special person -
So, gentle, good and kind
And have left the sweetest memories
And thoughts of you behind.
I only wish there was a way
That I could see you one more time
To thank you for the joy you brought
Into this life of mine."
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We thought of you with love today ,
We thought of you yesterday .And the day before that to .
We will think of you tomorrow ,As we will our whole lives through ,For the day we fail to think of you ,Is the day God takes us to ,,Love Hugs Kisses From Tina Always xxxxx
♥ `*• SWEET DREAMS PRECIOUS ANGEL ♥ `*•
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